Integrity is a term used to describe a
person's level of honesty, moral commitments, and willingness to do what's
right. For example, we expect our doctors to be honest with us about diagnoses,
won't try to prescribe medications we don't need, and will generally work in
the best interest of our health and well-being. We expect this because, in most
societies, doctors are perceived to be people of great integrity with strong
moral compasses.
Conversely, if your doctor didn't have any
integrity, he or she might be strongly influenced by drug companies or bribes
and might talk you into getting tests or procedures you don't need. When this
happens, society takes a dim view of that person—and in some cases legal
charges are brought—because he or she was expected to act with integrity.
Why Live with Integrity
It’s
Easier
It
may not seem like it at first blush, but living with integrity is easier than
living a deceitful life. While making unethical decisions is often easier in
the short term, it eventually takes its toll. There’s no real happiness to be
found in struggling to remember your lies, living in fear of getting caught,
and not feeling like you truly earned your reward. It’s empty and stressful.
Bernie Madoff may have lived high on the hog, but did he really enjoy his
wealth knowing that one day his house of cards would collapse? Living with
integrity brings wholeness and peace. Your conscience can rest easy, and you
can look at yourself in the mirror with pride.
It
Builds Trust
A
man of integrity is a man others can count on. They know he will do what he
says he will do. He is promoted at work because he can be trusted with greater
responsibility. His wife knows that when he says he’s working late, he really
is. His friends feel comfortable opening up to him and turning to him in times
of crisis. When you choose to live with integrity, all of your relationships
will be healthier, stronger, and more satisfying.
It
Serves as a Basis for Value Judgments
The
questions given above raise some sticky issues. Every day we are faced with
similar dilemmas. A commitment to live a life of integrity allows you clarity
when you have to make hard choices. You won’t be at war with yourself over
which path to choose. Instead, you’ll experience the confidence that comes with
having every aspect of your life knit together in a unity of purpose.
TO BE CONTINUED...................................
